13 Best Male Masturbators of 2025 To Give Your Hand a Break
Unlike your classic vibrator, which usually features a rumbly motor, these innovative toys utilize clit-sucking air pulsations rather than (or in tandem with) vibrations. This one fits nearly-effortlessly between two fingers, and is great for focusing vibration onto sensitive hotspots like the clit, nipples, or taint. I love this toy as someone who has chronic pain in my hands, because it’s easy for me to keep a grip on, even when my pain is flaring up.
If vibration feels daunting for your first go-around viberator, try using it as-is without turning it on first. If you’re short on storage space, you’ll love this three-in-one vibrator from Playboy. One side has a round, squishy head that functions as an external vibe.
Also, consider where you’ll use the toy and who you’ll use it with (if anyone). Based on your preferences, additional features like waterproofing, app compatibility, remote control operation, and ergonomic handles might be worth considering. Between wands, bullets, palm vibes, and clit suckers, there are a ton of great toys out there.
Just know that silicone-based lube can cause silicone sex toys to break down over time. Instead, try water-based lube, which is usually a safe, solid choice for most toys, as SELF has previously reported. Bullet vibrators are tiny sex toys with a pointed tip for targeted external sensation. Many can fit inside a strap-on harness for additional stimulation during pegging and other strap-on sex acts, according to Wright. Egg vibrators are also easy to tuck away and hide, but their round shape fits more comfortably in the palm of your hand. If you enjoy dual stimulation with a nice range of intensity options, Dr. O’Reilly says this two-in-one toy from Lovehoney is a great pick.
The company took into account feedback from the previous version and made this one quieter, stronger and longer-lasting and included a remote. Pop it into its protective case and no one will know it’s not fancy headphones. It’s understandable that you might not want to buy a toy designed just for balls stimulation, especially if you’re not sure you’ll like it. This little vibrator fits perfectly into the palm of your hand and can feel good on not only the balls and scrotum, but also the perineum and frenulum. You can use it with a partner, too—it fits nicely between bodies during penetrative sex.
Some of the frustration came from the way that the buttons were sunk into the silicone surface of the toy—it felt like some functionality and ease of use was sacrificed for the Strawberry’s appearance. I found the Tenuto Mini most comfortable during solo use, but it’s great with a partner, too. Using a vibrator with a partner, especially during penetration, can sometimes be a challenging (if satisfying) logistical problem. While it feels great for both of us, someone generally has to hold it in place.
Nicoletta Heidegger, a psychotherapist specializing in sexuality and the host/creator of the Sluts & Scholars podcast. If you’re seeking some stimulation in your rear end look no further than the Destructor Plug. If name alone doesn’t convince you the size is no joke, the measurements will.
The Lelo ina wave 2 is a powerful rabbit vibrator capable of unlocking both G-spot and clitoral orgasms, at the same time. “If you’ve ever wished you could just lie back and let a toy do all the work for you, the ina wave by Lelo might just be the vibe of your dreams. It’s a rabbit vibrator with two motors and two robotic arms,” explained our review. It features a generous 12 different speeds, allowing you to find the perfect match for you, and or to slowly build the intensity for a euphoric climax. We’ve rounded up an array of quiet vibrators , including clitoral suction vibrators, wand vibrators, vibrating strap-ons, vibrating penis rings, vibrating penis strokers and more.